how do you win a fight?
you realize that the person you're fighting is a person, just like you
they experience fear, anger, joy, and pride, just like you
then you deny yourself these emotions
and play on their emotions instead
"only when you lose everything can you do anything"
from the realm of the void, you can control that which exists
so it is in a fight
next, you realize that matter brings about feeling
and you accept pain as an undeniable fact
but not undeniably an obstacle
pain doesn't need to cause hesitation
just accept it as a form of existance
and continue to give your best
the modern day mind is too weak
you need to block pain and hurt from your mind
and understand that your foe is fallible
only then can you win a fight
your opponent will wear out if you keep fighting
first emotionally, then physically
as long as he does not understand these principles and you do
but if he does understand them well
there's no reason for you to fight, treat him like a brother.